Stanly Tran, LCSW

Therapy for over-thinkers tired of fighting their mind

Logical solutions cannot always solve psychological problems

When life is simpler, it’s easier to be the person we truly want to be… But as our pain and problems begin to overwhelm us, our mind’s “over-protective, over-analytical, problem-solving” nature logically sorry, “instinctually” drives us to avoid and eliminate painful thoughts and feelings, urging us to do whatever it takes to “feel better” or “not feel bad.” While this isn’t always bad, over time, it often stops meaningfully working. Over time, the way we deal with our emotional challenges starts to pull us away from our personal values and goals. Over time, no amount of self-care, positivity, or screen time seems to actually help. Rather than living a life, we are stuck surviving.

Hello, I’m Stanly 👋🏼

I’m most passionate about helping thoughtful, caring, hard-working people who are worn out by their own minds.

Like many of us, I was taught that certain thoughts or feelings are bad, that our worth depends on achievement, and that struggling is something to hide and mask. While this may have helped me achieve or accomplish things on the surface, they also gradually distorted my sense of self and reality, developing into excessive mental habits of catastrophic worrying and self-criticism and doubt. I wasted years arguing with my mind about what was “true/good/enough/safe”. Turns out the appearance of happiness or success ≠ true, authentic inner peace and satisfaction.

The problem usually isn’t a lack of effort nor is it that your mind is broken. Your mind learned to protect you in ways that once made sense but are both no longer necessary nor helpful. Together, we’ll understand why and work toward building a more functional and harmonious relationship with your mind.

I only work with individual adults currently residing in the state of California.

Accepted Insurances (via Octave Behavioral Health):

  • Aetna

  • Anthem Blue Cross of California

  • Blue Shield of California

  • Cigna/Evernorth

  • Healthnet/MHN

What people often come into work on:

Constantly caught up in head…
Worry and overthinking · a harsh inner critic, perfectionism, and shame · feeling down, stuck, or lost · frustration and irritability

Running on empty…
Burnout in caregiving, healthcare, education, law, and other helping roles · toxic workplaces · sleep thrown off by stress and a busy mind

Coping that backfires
Substances, screens, games, procrastination, really any habituated avoidance that produces short-term relief at the cost of long-term workability

Life changes
New parenthood (moms and dads, including postpartum anxiety and depression) · transitioning into early adulthood · career changes and retirement · relationship conflict or strain · divorce and separation · grief and loss

Who I often work with
Men · Asian Americans and children of immigrants · LGBTQ+ people, including trans and queer clients